You can never get away from expectations…There's always some kind of expectation there when dealing with yourself and people. 

Many times I have emailed my friend about “expectations” and I told him that people can never get away from expectations.  It’s okay to want and ask for something especially when you are a relationship of some sort exchanging and sharing words, thoughts and things between the two of you or amongst you.  Especially in this day in age, when it comes to dating, you got to talk about what your expectations are and stick to them.  You may change your mind midway or sometime on your path of being in a relationship, but what you truly want is within you and it’s important to talk about your expectations.

I’m saying that you can’t get away from expectations because when you are being kind to someone, you do in a way want someone to be kind to another person if it isn’t being reciprocated towards you or you want to at least get a “Thank You” or an appreciation from that person.  There are people like me who don’t really expect anything from people but when I think about it, I really want people to learn something from me through this blog.  I want people to understand what I’ve written and somehow make a change in their lives somewhere down the road.  I may not want changes to occur now but I want people to think about what they are reading when it comes to my blog.

Telling people what you want and need is important because it’s what you really have it in you.  It’s what you expect from others and even from yourself.  WHAT YOU ASK, YOU SHALL RECEIVE, especially when it comes to the Law of Attraction. You have to visualize in your mind and take action in doing what you want and need, in order to make something happen in the Law of Attraction.  Your mind plays out something that you want in your life and taking steps towards that “want” and “need” eventually taking you to meet those goals in life. 

I am true believer in the Law of Attraction, because I learned about it in 2012.  I was watching the “Secret” video and after I learned about it, people of positivity kept on coming around. I haven’t met a single bad person in my life since then.  Everyone has been good in my life, and before that I had a lot of problems with people.  There were people who were negative in the years after but I brought them back to being positive because I also believe in “Good Karma,” helping people in need, and in turn receiving the Goodness in this world.

Everything is a cycle in life and it goes around and comes back to you.  If you are treating people good and helping people in need, it will in turn helped you in the end. I believe so much in this “Good Karma,” and I am a testament to this. 

Anyways, when it comes to expectations, please tell people what you expect from them, asking them what you need and want in life.  It’s okay to have expectations.  I have had conversations with men and I know men nowadays don’t like having expectations put on them when they trying to live the single life.  It’s okay to have expectations put on you, because it is them asking you what they need and want.  And when it comes to what you need and want, people should have “wants” and “needs” as well.  You can’t just deny people of those, when you want and need something for yourself.  If your wants and needs contradict or conflict with one another, please learn how to compromise and come out with a plan and a deal with people.  Dealing with people is a good skill to have because you are being a diplomat and know how to make decisions by making fair deals where people come out of a situation with something they feel good about.  Decisions are there to mature you and let you become an authoritative figure, especially when it comes to being a man.  Your expectations are there to make deals and decisions.  Please communicate what you are feeling when it comes to you, because you will be in the short end of the stick when you don’t communicate about yourself. 

I know it’s hard to talk about yourself, but please when it comes to your expectations and what you want and need, it allows you to evolve and become someone who has a major role in life.

It’s a fact in life when you are growing up and maturing, because it a process of learning to do things.  Everything is about learning and when you are a single person with thoughts, feelings, wants, and needs you must communicate about those things to get what you deserve in life.

What do you ask for?  Try to be positive and try to visualize what you want and need.  The universe will answer your prayers and be proactive in speaking about yourself.

Anyways…that’s what I know about expectations… expectations teach you about what you can do for yourself when it comes to dealing with people.  When you are always around people you have to think about expectations, and when it comes to yourself, you must have goals and expectations for yourself, in order to have passion(s) in life and make it to those passions and dreams.

I have many times talked about not wanting or needing anything from my "so-called" friend, but when I really think about my expectations, I realize that I want and need certain things from him. I want him to learn from me and evolve to someone better, that's why I started the whole email thing with him from the beginning, to help him with his life.  I'm here writing because I have expectations of the world. 

The thing with expectations is that you need to think hard about what you want and need from yourself and people.  When you are thinking long and hard about these things, you will know that you will have expectations whether you want to or not.