Please don't fool a fool because one day you'll be a fool...

You know what I would not do when it comes to love is when I give some guy a chance who is talking to other girls at the same time. You know to me dealing with one guy is a lot and you men who are exclusive with your women, isn't it a lot of work trying to make something, a relationship work? Why would I give a guy like that a chance when I focus all on one guy. It might not be smart to do that but what's better being smart in a fucked up dating world and knowing how to jungle all them guys or girls or being true to whom you are by just choosing a guy or girl and focusing on him or her by getting with her without distractions? Maybe I'm not smart and not giving into the ways of how the dating world is because to me I'm doing myself a favor by sticking to what and whom I am when it comes to dating, that means that I am going to wait out and meet someone who has the same values as me. That's what I call ‘smart.’ Why would I be desperate and let someone into my life while he goes and talks to other girls. It doesn't have any thing to do with my pride and ego because I have put myself into vulnerable situations that made me look like a fool. But first of all you have to be a fool or be a  fool many times to be where you're at. You have to place yourself in a vulnerable situation to make a definite change.. and not just that you are building tolerance when it comes to vulnerable situations.

Please don't fool the fool because you may be in the situation of being a fool someday. What makes you think that you are invincible to everything. I will not fool anyone just to be sneaky and manipulative just because I think I can fuck with people. I have no right to manipulate  or fool anyone. Please if you think you're so smart please let someone mindfuck you and see who comes out being and acting crazy. I think mindfucking is evil and that being so the same with reverse psychology. I have no right to mindfuck anyone because it's all pride and ego when you think you can go into someone's mind and toy with their feelings and mind. What I know in this life is that there's always going to be someone smarter or prettier. Since I know this and a guy sticks with me even though someone else better comes into his life  is him being loyal and not being fickle. Buddy… if you're looking for someone better all the time you will never be happy and not just that what if you got kicked to the curve when someone better comes along in your girlfriend’s or boyfriend’s life? So your mentality towards being elusive when it's comes to dating may be weird. How would you feel if your girl or guy kicks you to the curve once she’ve or he’ve  found someone better? Don't lie… you would be sad and it would beat down your pride and ego.

Anyways I choose  one guy at the beginning and make sure I am the only one he's talking to and if he's not right I move on. The other guys who didn't have a chance I will not run to them and ask for a redo… because I made a choice and not just that… I am confident that another guy will show up and if not… there's no biggie because I feel complete to even care to be in another relationship. I'm not desperate to date and put myself in an open relationship to later be kicked to the curve. I know what I want and this guy better know what he wants and sticks to his decisions. I know how to stick to my decisions and not even feel like a fool for choosing someone. If things don't work out it means it's not meant to be.

Anyways the dating world these days is fucked up. You don't think? You will need to look around you because there's not a lot of old school loving going around. I am old fashion with a flair of sassiness and is filled with passion.

I'm asking this universe to find someone right for me… who will stick with me through thick and thin. I'm asking the universe to find someone who has the same values as me. Well in this world there will only to be one or two people for each person. That's why you went through so many frogs and haven't met the one. If that the one leaves there will be another the one. You will probably only have two the ones in this lifetime and if you've found her then the universe has answered your prayers. You are one lucky guy or girl. Since I know this I will be careful and I will be patient. The universe knows but once you've had the chance please don't be a fool and make it go away but you're a fool because you allowed yourself to experience something. You're only a fool because it's an opportunity to look into yourself and have a chance to feel and know something about yourself.

Don't you think I make a lot of sense?

Please don't fool a fool. You will be the fool one day if the universe is watching. The universe is always watching and it will teach you a lesson about life every time. It's coming from a very wise person right here.

Please think about what you're doing when it comes to relationships and please don't sell yourself short just to keep someone in your life. Stick with what you want in life and be patient. The right one will come along.