You know what love is?
To me… love is when you compromise, it’s when you fight for long hours
and make up after yelling and screaming at each other but in the end you will not leave this person so you compromise about what’s in your heart. Love is also when you understand each other
and want to talk about your deepest desires, wants and needs. Love is not fleeting. That is just the beginning or start of a
relationship. You cannot expect your
love life to be weak in the knees constantly because what kind of love would
that be? That would be a life where you’re in a way drunk all of the time. I want to be grounded and I want to run to
someone after we’ve fought and give them a big hug and kiss on the lips. I do not want to meet my soulmate or twin
flame. I just want someone who will be there for me through thick and thin who
will raise my kids up with me. I want someone who makes me happy while
sometimes it being sad at times because if we are not able to compromise, all
he does is stick with me because we are a couple. I do not always want that feeling that is
fleeting because I feel I won’t be grounded if it was like that. I will
constantly feed off of that need to be on cloud 9. This lover of mines will constantly have to
drag me or carry me if I am always weak in the knees. So I do not want that kind of love. I want meaningful love that lasts for a
while.
Meaningful love is all I want.
I never really liked the movie "Notebook" and "A Walk to Remember." Hollywood always made romance like that unattainable. Usually romance is chaotic and it's a love and hate relationship. I've never been in a relationship that was so great as the couple like in the "Notebook," but I don't wish for that kind of relationship. The kind of relationship I want is real and raw, that sometimes we would get into long tough fights and then we would stop talking to one another, then think about why we're not thinking that and come back to each other to make up and do this over and over again. I have always liked the movie "Blue Valentine" and "Eternal Sunshine" because it shows real couples fighting and separating at times and loving one another hard as though nothing could separate them unless towards the end they separate, but that is what I call "real." Real relationships see your vulnerable side with embarassing moments or with moments that may indicate that you may leave but you two end up coming back to one another.
I don't want a perfect romance like in the movies. I want something "real."
I always tell people that I don't plan on meeting my soulmate or twin flame because I don't need to. All I want to be with is someone who is right and who will stick with me through thick and thin. That's the kind of relationship I want. I don't seriously don't want to be on cloud 9 all of the time because what kind of relationship would that be, when I'm not grounded.
If you feeling that your current relationship is not fleeting, please rethink how you feel about the relationship. You are probably doing good. Most of everyone wants to be on cloud 9 all of the time, but please rethink about what you want, because that expectation is not really realistic.
Anyways, I hope you all have a good Valentine's. Even if some of you may not have anything but please indulge in yourself and buy yourself something nice. You don't always need a man or a woman to sweep you off your feet today.
Happy Valentine's...
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