When it comes to dating...

When I go on a date, I will ask, “What kind of girl do you like? And give me an example, a Hollywood example.”  It’s a trick question, Ladies.  I ask this question because I want to know if they care about looks.  One guy whom I was talking to said “the girl from Cinderella.”  I’m not quite sure what her name is, but she is really, really beautiful.  So I know this guy really care about looks…  I don’t like it when guys tell me that they like to talk to beautiful girls and go “You’re beautiful.”  Right when I hear that, I go, “Uhh, you can’t date me, I don’t care about looks, and you are not handsome, means I don’t care about looks to even give you a chance to go on a date with me, so why would I go for someone who cares about looks; I would be selling myself short.” The only reason why I give people who don’t look good a chance is because they may seem like a good guy.  I’m going to give someone a chance who seems good, right, not based on if they have a good job or is good looking?

This world is so superficial and Hollywood has made it impossible for people to really think about who is right for them, but Noooo…they have to have standards that say that they want someone who is really beautiful, when they’re not even close to that.  Not even close… Wayyy off. Think about it ladies, when men tell you that they like/love a celebrity, it means he cares about looks.  There could be other reasons but anyways most of the time it tells you that. Most of everyone cares about looks, but really if they like someone who looks really, really beautiful and is impossible for them to find someone like that, they will leave you in an instance when a girl like that comes along, which in the end, will not happen and they will probably end up running back to you.  When that happens, girls, say “NOOOooooo” as in Russell Peter’s “No” to that. Me, I’ll say that someone is cute or good looking, but it doesn’t mean I like them, I just tell them the truth that they are good looking. That’s all. But, honestly, this last guy, whom I was talking to, did not look handsome.  He didn’t even have a good job, which I don’t care about. He looked like he hasn’t dated in a while and it was true, he didn’t have a girlfriend for a while.  No one was willing to give him a chance, until a few months ago.  He was with a girl for several months, while a few months later he talked to me, which I think was very wrong.

I have high moral values, man. I will not cheat with a man when he has someone. I do not want someone to do that to me when I’m dating them, so why would I do that.  It’s uncontrollable and very egotistical when women or men do that.  I do not fall in love when someone tells me that they think I’m beautiful. I am so tired of men telling me that I’m beautiful to my face that’s why I just don’t care anymore. I am real tired of men choosing me for my looks.  On top of that, I am real nice and have a lot going on.  There’s going to be people who are better looking than me, means that if he chose me for my looks, he will leave me for someone better.  It’s very superficial of some men.

I’m not superficial to be dating superficial men. It will not make any sense to be dating someone like that when my values are not the same as that.

Sometimes people give me the dirty look when they hear that I’ve gone for men who are not good looking, who do not have good jobs, because they think I have no or very low standards. If you know my mentality and what I’ve been through, then you would have not judge.  Man, I just let them judge, and then I go, ”You know what, Bitch, you’re not me to understand whom I am to be saying that. Just run off to your fairy tale little world.”  I’m not mean but I’m done with people who accuse me of anything, because I am not a certain way due to how I see the world. I am so fed up with what the world has become, that I am doing things that are different from a lot of people. I, honestly, do not separate myself from people, but in a way, I am different, because there’s a lot of bullshit going around.

Some people may think, “You will never find anyone.”  I have gotten comments like that on my page, and I go, “You know what, I don’t want your husband. I’m not looking at your life, and wanting your life, because I don’t. Honestly, I don’t.”

I have not looked at anyone’s husband or boyfriend and wanted them, I back the fuck off.

I have spoken to men who have wives and girlfriends, and I know why they talk to me.  It’s because they want to keep me on the side just in case their girlfriends or wives leave them, OR, they just feel empowered or full of themselves when they are talking to a pretty girl.  Maybe they don’t want to date me, but it’s an ego thing.  These are the type of guys who will not leave their girlfriend because maybe their girlfriends are young or maybe they have good jobs to even be leaving them for you.

Men these days need a girlfriend or wife who has a good job to just keep their life financially stable, because that’s just how men are nowadays.  The economy is not so great, that’s why.

I’m telling you, you should be careful when you’re getting to know men because you have to be smart and ask the right questions.  I said “QUESTIONS, not question.” Test him, do it for your-self, and see what kind of men he is.  Test him or get to know him first before getting serious, because you will end up with a man who is fickle probably or won’t love you entirely, who will leave you right when a prettier or sexier girl comes along.

And if you’re a guy, please be smart as well, because all of this is not just for women, it’s for the men as well.  If you’re a good looking man or a man who has a lot going on, please test the women and be smart when you’re on dates.  And even if you’re not good looking or don’t have a lot going on, be smart if you’re not the type who longs for beautiful women.  Just don’t, okay, if you care about looks.  I get away from people who care about looks, because to me that’s superficial.

P.S. Sometimes, guys and girls will tell you that they idle someone like a celebrity just because, but will not give up on you, because you’re too good to give up on, it’s just that it’s just a celebrity.  I’m just saying that if you ask the right question about whom their ideal girl is, and they go this and this (celebrity) then you will know.