Let people assume...

Let people assume and then prove them wrong, so they can crash and burn within themselves, because all of those thoughts that they have had, thinking the same things in same ways will let them rethink about whom they are, and why this person proved them wrong.  People like to be right mostly, but I am not self-righteous.  I am going to be challenged, proven wrong and sometimes no one wins because we were both right.  Sometimes there is no right or wrong in certain things or situations because they are opinions, and opinions are not facts. Even facts crash and burn because our books wrote in concrete that this and that happened and we in a way strangled our children to the point of forcing them to believe the things we wrote our textbooks. I am not a scientist to be saying that the big bang really happened or to say that there is really no god. I do not come to a conclusion, but I conclude because these moments are phases within my life. I have thought and continued to rethink my theories because I am adaptable. I am also stubborn because I am confident in what I think and say but in a way I can change my thoughts whenever I feel I am wrong.  I take everything into consideration because being aware and being open-minded means that my mind is able to understand that people may not be lying that they were telling the truth in the end.  Maybe there is a god, and maybe there is no god, but who am I to say that the big bang really happened when I am not a scientist.  If I am an expert I would at least rally around my ideas and be passionate about my theories and what I know to persuade people to think like me or to get me at least.  But sometimes their theories are wrong in the end or maybe not even wrong per say but not right for this time.

People tell me not to assume all the time, but what is so wrong with assuming when the mind is making sense of things and filling in the blanks?  If you did not tell me the whole truth, my mind is going to fill in the blanks, and this is where you fill in the blanks because you have explained yourself.

Anyways what is the whole truth? I will get into that topic someday.

You should never get tire of explaining yourself, because you understand yourself more than anyone.  Even if you don’t understand yourself, at least communicate, because if you do, you may understand and know yourself more.

Communication is important when it comes to people assuming and not getting it right, as long as we continue to communicate.

I always take everything into consideration because if you are expressing yourself and telling me something or yelling at me because no one understands, those thoughts, feelings and ideas are important because it’s you, it’s what’s on the inside.  Please don’t tell someone to shut up or be quiet. I tell myself to shut the fuck up because I get annoyed with myself, but let someone freely express themselves whether they’re being vulgar or what not, because they are expressing themselves.  If they are not doing something right, you will (do you understand now?) prove them wrong.  This is why we communicate.

Please don’t tell me to stop assuming… I understand why people assume.  It’s human nature.  If you don’t assume, then try try try extra hard to not fill in the blanks, because most likely you will be assuming something, since people like to know they’re right.  You’re stuck thinking a certain way and believing something for a long time, of course you’ll be offended by someone who is showing what is right or wrong.

If you don’t think you assume, please record yourself and listen to your conversations with people.  You will be surprised that you are just like the others, assuming when you didn’t know you assumed.  Anyways, it’s human nature to assume because the mind always makes sense of things because the mind wants to. What the mind wants, the mind gets, when the mind thinks it gets.  Sometimes your mind plays tricks on you.  If you’re constantly thinking and being open-minded, you may evolve to be a certain way or even change the way you think until whenever you go away.  The mind sometimes doesn’t evolve until that one person challenges you and makes you think.  The Buddha challenges people and people challenges him.  Anyways, it might be refreshing and relieving to finally get what someone is saying when they’re telling you something you don’t know.  The Buddha askes people to challenge him, because he understands that there needs to be freedom of thought and there being challenge.  He wants people to live freely and understand life.  If there is new world order, we need to challenge our leaders and do what’s right for our time or for their time.  Anyways, I hope I make a lot of sense.  Sometimes you need to knock the sense out of people, to get them to listen up. If you don’t get it now, you will or you won’t.  It all depends in what you think…especially which sides you take on a debate or even if you understand or don’t understand.  Anyways, have a good day.