Learned perspective and on the whole truth or versions of the truth...

Why the whole truth is not the whole truth and why there are versions of the truth…

When I am telling someone a story, sometimes I can’t elaborate exactly like how I wanted to say and sometimes with whatever I’m referring to, I make that person or thing look bad when really it isn’t and when unintentionally it’s not in my purpose to make it look bad…  Yeah so even if I sat with you for hours talking about something, situations may be too complicated to even talk within those few hours and even if I have concluded my feelings about something, my thoughts and feelings about that object, thing or person may change due to learned perspective.

What is learned perspective?

Learned perspective is when that object, thing or person changes to you when you have learned to change or evolve, so that thing changes or evolves with you.  Tell me that when you go through life you don’t just stay the same, you experience things within yourself so whatever you thought about that bad relationship or fallout with a sibling or whatever that comes to mind, your perspective may change as well.  With me and according to me, perspectives keep changing my thoughts and feelings on that object, thing or person throughout my life because I am experiencing and evolving.  If you are not evolving, then you will be stuck thinking the same thing, stuck like a child like someone who does not mature.  Sometimes people are so sheltered, they don’t experience anything and yearn to go out to the world.  Please stop yourself from not letting your children experience life the right way or the wrong way, because sometimes the wrong thing or wrong way will teach something to your kids in the end.

Versions of the truth are matters of opinions and how people perceive something.  Your version of how my story went because you were there as well or took in someone else’s story tells me that there are versions of the truth.  It may not be correct, but in your mind wherever  you are in life, you may one day perceive to be like your friend because maybe you came to realize that that thing, object, or person was in fact the same version of the truth.

When I was emailing a friend, I was not able to converse everything within each email so I would come off as wanting or expecting something when really I have not explained my completely within that email because conversations will get complicated and they overlap or they are little details of what you are thinking. 

If you are not the type to assume, then it means you will not assume when something is said because you realize there is more to a conversations and things don’t end.  A story is just a depiction of someone’s life but it’s not the whole truth unless it was entirely written in a long ass book.  A book is not the end, it just seems like it ends, but life is continuous and keeps going until your story is lost.

Anyways, when I write here, I am not writing the whole truth, there is nonverbal communication going on here that needs to be explained or said in the next posts.  I continue to write because things overlap and I am continuously writing because I have the needs and wants to explain myself.

Please never stop explaining yourself because people will always have their own mind of explaining their version of the truth due to what they have stored within that memory, within their brain or how they come off when they speak of your story.

Anyways, I hope I make sense.