Men are just like us, too, toiling within themselves...

You know I am proud to be a woman and I have once in the past had "penis-envy" and acted like a guy while surrounding myself around men.  If I were to separate myself from men, then I don’t understand men.  Do you understand what a man feels on the inside?  We, women, talk about our emotions like nothing, when men retort into themselves and joke around about sex and their penises, since they generally can’t talk about their feelings.  When they talk about their feelings, they are seen as feminine and too much.  If you see a man crying, those are real tears, because a man doesn’t really cry.  Women are allowed to cry and have those emotions because we are emotional, loving and caring. Please don’t deny a man when he is opening up to you and telling you what his feelings and thoughts are, because when he does, it means he’s being real.  A man is, to me, amazing just like a woman.  Or, a woman, to me, is just as amazing as a man.Tell me when a guy looks into your eyes and tells you he loves you and pounds his fist on the table because you denied him, then you are denying what his feelings are for you. I have surrounded myself around men before and I understand how men think and why they are the way they are now.  It’s sad because they toil within themselves just like how we women toil within ourselves due to rape, abuse, or what not.  We, women do not just toil, they do too.  We are all struggling within ourselves… We’re lost in translation because we don’t communicate like we used to. We resorted to texting and not talking on the phone or talking on one on one.  The dating world may not work at all in the future because we are so turned off by men or by each other, and then will humankind continue because we separated ourselves from others because of the opposite sex? The future may not have ‘gender’ or any ‘sex’ in it because the world got turned off because of the abuse or not understanding one another.  Do you understand the laws of polarity (of gender)?  We have gender in everything.   You will not like the world we live in when gender is erased.  Please get away from hating the opposite sex, because you glorified yourself as a woman above men, or a man above women.  You are ‘one’ man and ‘one’ woman because you separate yourself from people. You are not beneath or above, you are balanced within the scale.  Everything is about balance. You can’t tell what my feelings are but my feelings here are telling you how I feel, but if you are here watching me, you will see that I cry for people when they struggle.  That silence is a death sentence because you are stuck within yourself and not ever telling people how you feel or think.  We need to put our phones down and really get to the core of the matter here.  Men struggle as well, too. Please men or anyone, if you are stuck within yourself, practice expressing your feelings. 

I’m telling you if you care, please think beyond yourself and think about what matters to you.  I have emotional intelligence that’s why I write the way I do.  I have feelings about people, I route for people.  I understand why people are the way they are because of this and that and I am, here to tell you the truth or a version of the truth. 

Anyways, I hope I make sense.